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The power of gentle sex

The power of gentle sex

Learning about sex in the hotch pot way that I did, I thought that I was meant to look sexy, act sexy, and that sex had to get faster faster and more intense as our bodies tensed before my partner and I exploded into orgasm, ideally at the same time. That became a...

How I learnt to ask for what I want

How I learnt to ask for what I want

  I was raised to be the typical good girl, not just with my parents but with school, family and any ‘authority’. I heard familiar phrases like ‘Saying ‘I want’ gets nothing’, ‘so-and-so‘s children don’t ask all the time for things they want’, ‘nothing in life...

The pleasure journey of one of my clients

The pleasure journey of one of my clients

Anthi, in her mid-40s, reached out to me as intimacy with her long term partner had pretty much stopped.  She found sex ‘scary and disgusting’. She grew up being told that sex was dirty, only men want it and women do it for the men.  Over the years, sex was often when...

Getting to know your erotic landscape

Getting to know your erotic landscape

“The women who shared stories of loving sex or of having profound sexual experiences reminded me at times of careful cartographers. They were not inventing new lands so much as mapping the full extent of existing territory. “  Katherine Rowland, ‘The Pleasure Gap’ I...

From OK Sex to OMG!!

From OK Sex to OMG!!

From OK Sex to OMG Sex!! In this video, Sarah shares three tips on how to take your sex life from OK to OMG!! So watch now... Ignite Your Sexuality is a YouTube series where Sarah Rose Bright shares inspiring and practical tips on how to ignite and enhance sex,...

The Truth About Foreplay

The Truth About Foreplay

The Truth About Foreplay: If you are frustrated with foreplay, you don’t feel you get enough or that there is too much pressure on it, watch this video to discover a new way to think about foreplay and why and how thinking differently will transform your experience....

The Myth of Telepathic Sex

The Myth of Telepathic Sex

The Myth of Telepathic Sex: If you believe sex ‘should’ be telepathic, that you ‘should’ just know what your partner likes and they ‘should’ just know what you like without any communication, watch this video to find out the problems this myth causes and why amazing...

From Busyness to Sexy-ness

From Busyness to Sexy-ness

From Busyness to Sexy-ness! This video is for you if you are always busy with never-ending to-do lists and you can’t seem to find the time for pleasure or you never really feel like it. In this video, Sarah shares one tip that can transform this. Watch now to find...

What Does “Successful Sex” Look Like?

What Does “Successful Sex” Look Like?

What does "successful sex" look like? In this video, Sarah Rose Bright shares the very common myth of what "successful sex" ‘should’ look like and the truth about "successful sex". Watch to discover both the myth and the truth. Changing this belief alone can transform...