Viva La Soft Cock Revolution! One of my favourite sex educators and revolutionaries Annie Sprinkle calls for a ‘soft cock revolution’. There is so much wisdom in that statement and here is why. It’s fascinating to reflect on the use of the word ‘hard’ in our culture -...
From Performance to Pleasure The sexuality most of us learn is based on performance and goals. The goal of having an erection, keeping an erection, not coming to soon, building the arousal, having an orgasm, not having an orgasm, giving your partner an orgasm and so...
The Challenges & Gifts of Sexual Pleasure Sexual pleasure which can be the most challenging and controversial of all pleasures. We’re going to begin with reflecting on the social and cultural influences on our sexuality and sex lives and how these affect us. Then...
(Estimated Reading Time is 5 minutes) The genitals we see in pornography are usually one type with females with small, neat, symmetrical shaven vulvas and males with long, large and continually hard cocks! Just like the highly unrealistic images we see of how bodies...